You are worthy of aligned love.
The kind of love you dream about. That you wonder if you’ll ever find.
A love that may not look exactly like you expect it to, but that feels so good you couldn’t care.
The kind of love that doesn’t play games with your heart, because it knows that anything that hurts you would hurt it too.
Love that would never make you feel unworthy. Unwanted. Unsure about where it stands.
You deserve a love that’s intensely curious about what makes you, you -- and stands in awe as the truth of you unfolds.
Love that’s ready for the kind of relationship you’re ready for.
That chooses you with an enthusiastic and unequivocal “YES!”
That’s all-in on who you are -- and wants more.
You deserve a love that knows how to give -- generously. Unabashedly. Without strings attached.
And receive -- with grace, humility, and deep gratitude.
A love that’s emotionally available. That wants to experience true intimacy with you -- and knows how to create it, or enthusiastically wants to learn how.
You deserve a love that’s compatible with you in all of the ways that truly matter -- and that challenges your assumptions about what your dealbreakers really are.
The kind of love that supports you. That gives you just what you need right when you need it -- even if that’s a lesson you might not be so thrilled to be learning in that exact moment.
Love that asks you to grow in all of the ways you’re meant to. That you need to. That you’re capable of.
You’re worthy of a love that shows you the limits of your love, and invites you to love even more deeply than you’ve loved before -- than you ever thought you could.
You deserve the kind of love that has a knack for bringing up old wounds. Ones you were sure had healed long ago, or that you were certain never would.
A love that bears compassionate witness to these tender places without turning its back on them. Without recoiling, judging, or bruising them anew.
That loves you even more because of them.
Because they make you who you are, and who you are is beautiful.
A love that is capable of holding the space you’ve always needed to feel safe enough to face these wounds up close. To feel them, heal them, and let them go.
Once and for all.
You deserve a love that sees the best in you, knows your true potential, and gives you the benefit of the doubt.
A love that keeps you honest, holds you accountable, and doesn’t let the important things slide.
A love that’s quick to forgive, and slow to take offense.
That doesn’t jump to conclusions, make assumptions, or judge too swiftly or too harshly.
You deserve a love that shows care and consideration for how you feel.
That respects and admires you for your ideas -- the way you think about life and the course you’re navigating through it.
A love that trusts you, and acts in a way deserving of trust.
That follows through on its commitments -- to itself, and to you.
You deserve a love that doesn’t shut you out of what it’s going through. That lets you know what it’s struggling with so you don’t have to wonder where it’s gone, and why. That communicates as much as it can about how it feels even if that’s just to admit that it needs help. That it doesn’t have it all figured out. That it’s scared, or confused.
You deserve a love that makes you feel comfortable speaking up about the things that matter to you. That doesn’t react with defensiveness, denial, dismissiveness, or disdain. A love that welcomes these admissions because it truly cares about what you have to say -- even if it doesn’t necessarily agree with you. The kind of love that knows there’s enough space in a relationship for your feelings and its opinions about what’s going on.
You deserve a love that takes wholehearted responsibility for its own underdeveloped places. Ones that are the source of regular discord and strife. That undermine its ability to create and sustain the kind of connected, vulnerable relationship you’re trying to build together.
A love that can admit it made a mistake, and own it.
Love that considers if there’s any truth to the criticism it receives, no matter how painful or threatening it might be for it to do so. A love that integrates that truth into its understanding of itself -- for its own sake, and for the sake of the relationship.
A love that wants to grow.
The kind of love that tells the truth, even when it’s hard. That would rather have a tough conversation than harbor the kind of resentment that could so easily drag the relationship down.
You deserve a love that approaches conflict as your ally, not your adversary. That wants reconciliation more than it wants retribution.
That gets more compassionate when times are tough, not less.
That is strengthened when you are true to yourself, not strained.
You’re worthy of a love that doesn’t hurt you, or make you feel bad about yourself. That doesn’t ask you to sacrifice over, and over, and over again without offering you the same devotion in return.
That doesn’t love you only when it’s convenient for it to, or only when it gets something out of you for itself.
You deserve a love that holds on to you as lightly as can be. That affords you the freedom to express all of who you are -- without attachment, expectation, conformity, or control.
A love born not of dependence, but desire.
That’s with you because it wants to be, not because it needs to be.
You’re worthy of a love that makes you feel desired.
That doesn’t view your body as a means to an end but as another miraculous way to connect with and express itself with you.
That knows just the right buttons to push, and when.
You deserve a love that understands, honors, and appreciates all of what makes you special -- your character, talents, quirks, and flaws.
That accepts you, unconditionally, as enough.
As more than enough.
As exactly the kind of person it’s always dreamed of ending up with. Someone it’s so profoundly grateful to have found that it would never for a moment consider letting you go.
A love that makes you feel tremendously grateful to have found it too.
You deserve the kind of love that’s self-evident -- that doesn’t require explanation or justification.
Love that is because it is.
A love that simultaneously expands the boundaries of your known universe and gives you back to yourself.
That makes you feel more comfortable in your own skin and more settled in your head and heart, not less.
Love that’s affectionate. Joyous. Abundant. Real.
That’s fully present with you, and that you can be fully present with too.
The kind of love that sets the bar for all other love.
Love that’s so perfect, so right, so pure that you would compassionately reject any and all love that doesn’t make you feel this way so that you would always be open to receiving the love that does.
No matter how long it takes.
You deserve a love that wants you to be happy, no matter what. Even if that means that it doesn’t get to share that happiness with you anymore.
Love that may not last as long as you want it to, but that always lasts as long as it’s meant to.
The kind of love you remember long after it’s gone because it’s shown you more of who you are, and who you are is beautiful.
This kind of love is available to you in this lifetime.
It’s not just a possibility.
It’s your destiny.